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Emotional durability

Savings plans die in month seven, usually over something as ordinary as a fridge. Three questions written for companies that survive shocks, asked of one household and one shop.

Mlungisi Ndwandwe
Mlungisi Ndwandwe
Founder & CEO, Sicebi International Group Holdings
First published in the Sunday Observer · 18 October 2026

You have been doing everything right. For seven months, E500 has left your salary on payday and gone straight into savings. No skipped months, no dipping into the account. The balance stands at E3 560, E3 500 of it yours and the rest interest. For once, your money seems to be going somewhere.

Then the fridge dies. A replacement costs E4 100. You empty the savings account and borrow E540 to cover the difference. The fridge hums again. The account reads zero.

Nearly three in ten could not find E3 100 in a month Where adults would find about E3 100 of emergency money within a month, per cent of adults aged 15 and over, Eswatini, 2024 Source: World Bank, Global Findex Database 2025 — Main source of emergency funds within 30 days; the sum is a twentieth of national income per person, about E3 100. Plain Money / Mlungisi Ndwandwe Family or friends 30% Could not find it 28% Sell something 11% Borrow from a bank or lender 10% Savings 10% Extra work 8% Other 3%
Three in ten would ask family or friends. One in ten would reach for savings first. The saver with a stop order is the exception. Chart · Plain Money / World Bank Global Findex

You know the fund did its job. Without it, you would have borrowed the entire amount. Still, seven months of restraint seem to have vanished overnight. When payday returns, you cancel the stop order. Starting again feels harder than continuing ever did.

There lies a weakness many financial plans overlook. We prepare money for emergencies without preparing ourselves for the disappointment of drawing it down.

Since June, this column has examined our financial habits, borrowing decisions, trade-offs and the systems that protect us from impulse. Yet sound arithmetic cannot save a plan we abandon in frustration. It also needs emotional durability. This is the capacity to absorb disappointment, recognise changing circumstances and continue pursuing a worthwhile financial goal.

The clause nobody wrote

In July, this column described a sovereign wealth fund as money given a constitution. Rules written in calmer times protect long-term investments when pressures mount. Your stop order was such a rule. It simply lacked a clause for the day the balance returned to zero.

Sometimes, however, nothing breaks and the money still runs out. Since 2 October, petrol has cost E3.43 more per litre, adding E137.20 to a 40-litre purchase. On routes where bus fares rose from E13 to E18, 44 monthly journeys now cost another E220.

Electricity tariffs increased by an average of 11.74 per cent in April, equivalent to approximately E47 on a previous E400 bill, although individual tariffs and consumption differ. The regulated price of an 800g white loaf rose by 76 cents just before the petrol adjustment. September’s quarter-point interest-rate increase added an estimated E62 a month to repayments on a E500 000 car loan.

For a household facing the petrol, bus, electricity and loan increases, the additional burden amounts to approximately E466 monthly, before counting extra bread purchases. Almost the entire E500 savings contribution is gone. No holiday, no new furniture. The same journey to work, the same electricity, the same bread.

A household can rearrange its budget; it cannot rearrange the economy. When essential costs rise together, discipline alone cannot manufacture spare income. Our financial constitution must therefore distinguish a temporary setback from a lasting squeeze. One calls for recovery. The other may require rewriting the plan.

The future doesn’t respect your budget

In 2012, a group of chief executives were asked what it would mean to take shocks seriously. Roland Kupers, who worked with them, later wrote: “The past of every organisation shows discontinuities, but its future plans are always smooth.”

Consider your own financial forecast. Savings rise steadily. Debt declines. Salary arrives on the 25th, customers pay promptly and expenses remain within budget. Now recall the past five years. A funeral. Retrenchment. Late back pay. A customer who took four months to settle an invoice. Our budgets often draw straight lines through lives that rarely follow them.

Governments and businesses confront the same problem on larger balance sheets. A delayed project, unexpected salary obligation or revenue shortfall can force money away from other priorities. The consequences differ, but the underlying weakness remains: commitments depend on assumptions that may not survive contact with reality.

Work on organisational resilience associated with Shell and the Resilience Action Initiative developed three concerns: structural resilience within an organisation, its connections with the outside world and its capacity to transform when circumstances change.

Those ideas belong at the kitchen table too. They invite us to examine not only how much money we possess, but what happens when something goes wrong.

How far can one shock travel?

Consider a hardware shop that supplies E48 000 worth of materials to a contractor who takes four months to pay. Suppliers still demand payment. Workers expect wages. Customers want stock.

If the owner pays household expenses directly from the shop’s account, one late invoice threatens school fees and groceries. Instead, suppose she pays herself a fixed E9 000 salary into a separate account and maintains a business reserve. The reserve covers her pay while she pursues the debt. Her business faces a cash-flow crisis, but her household can still function.

In the third month the contractor is back, asking for another delivery on account. The reserve is draining. Saying no may cost her the one relationship that leads to the E48 000. She says no anyway. Her rule, written before he owed her anything, is no fresh credit past 60 days. He settles in the fifth month. Separate accounts do not recover E48 000. They prevent its absence from swallowing everything else.

The same principle applies to income. Two maize fields on the same hillside may appear to offer diversification until drought destroys both harvests. Two customers dependent on the same government contract can also fail together.

Having several income sources offers limited protection when the same shock can undermine them all. Financial resilience therefore depends on understanding connections and vulnerabilities. A household’s breaking point might be the first missed debit order, triggering penalties and bank charges. For a business, it could be a supplier withdrawing credit. A small shortage can quickly become a larger debt when expensive borrowing claims next month’s income.

Relationships provide another form of protection. A supplier who trusts your payment record may extend terms. A stokvel or relative may bridge an emergency. Such support cannot replace savings, but it can buy something equally valuable during a crisis: time. The challenge is to prevent one setback from becoming several.

Long wait for a return

Surviving the shock is one problem. Staying with the plan while it crawls is the other. For a long time the money you set aside produces nothing you can see. Holding on takes conviction, which is the same durability the fridge tested. Suppose you invest E500 at the end of every month, earning an illustrative nominal annual return of 7 per cent, compounded monthly. After one year, you have contributed E6 000. Your investment is worth approximately E6 196. Twelve months of restraint have produced just E196 in returns.

Meanwhile, your friend has spent E500 monthly on outings and clothes. There are photographs to show for it. You have an account statement. Give the investment ten years, however, and the balance reaches approximately E86 542, including E26 542 in returns. After twenty years, it grows to about E260 463 on contributions totalling E120 000.

These figures assume a constant return, with no withdrawals, fees, taxes or inflation adjustments. Actual investment outcomes will differ. The mathematics explains why patience matters. Early contributions do most of the work. Over time, accumulated returns begin earning returns of their own. Our emotions, unfortunately, do not compound at the same rate.

We feel the sacrifice immediately while much of the reward arrives years later. That mismatch makes month seven particularly dangerous. A temporary setback can masquerade as proof that the entire exercise was pointless. Yet the E3 560 did not vanish without producing anything. It bought most of a fridge and prevented most of a E4 100 emergency from becoming debt. The statement shows zero. It does not show the E3 560 you did not borrow.

Rule for starting again

The final resilience challenge is adaptation. Can we change our financial arrangements before circumstances force more painful decisions? After the emergency, the E500 stop order might fall to E200 for two months while the E540 loan is repaid, then return to E500. If essential expenses leave no room for even E200, the contribution can pause until the budget recovers.

The original ten-year projection will change. That is preferable to maintaining an unaffordable deduction, missing essential payments and borrowing again to buy groceries.

The hardware shop needs a boundary too: no vehicle purchase while its reserve is being rebuilt. Such decisions are easier to defend when agreed in advance.

Scenario planning is another often overlooked yet powerful discipline. What happens if salary arrives three weeks late? If maize meal costs 30 per cent more? Which payment takes priority, and which expense can wait? A difficult month rehearsed on paper arrives with fewer surprises. It also answers the question the fridge left open. Was this a setback or a change? The fridge was a setback, so the savings get rebuilt. A permanent cut in income is a change, so the plan gets rewritten.

Return to the kitchen. The replacement fridge is working. On the next payday the stop order goes back on, at E200. Two months later the E540 is gone and the E500 returns. By month nineteen the balance reads about E5 560. Had the fridge lasted, it would read about E10 000. The gap is the fridge, and it is closing. There is one more thing the seven months bought, and the statement cannot show it either. You know what month seven feels like. You have watched the balance reach zero and climb back. The next emergency will find someone who restarts the stop order on the next payday, rather than the one after. A sound financial plan should do more than grow money when everything goes right. It should keep one bad month from taking ownership of the next ten years.

Mlungisi Ndwandwe is a seasoned strategy and investment executive with extensive experience in corporate development, capital allocation and business growth across international markets. He writes in his capacity as Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Sicebi International Group Holdings.

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